Showing posts with label God is Love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label God is Love. Show all posts

Friday, August 2, 2013

“I’m not a monster, just sick.” Ariel Castro and 49 Fewer Shades of Grey


                Judge Michael Russo really got it right when, after Castro’s statement to the court, which verbalized his detachment from reality, he noted that Castro was a narcissist.  This is the root of the problem.  Narcissism builds into a sociopathic personality which builds and becomes practically interchangeable with the psychopathic personality; while not every narcissist is a psychopath every psychopath is truly a narcissist.  The hallmark of this personality is an inability to empathize with others.  To disregard your fellows suffering if it suits your personal agenda and to believe that you’re personal agenda is actually really everyone’s agenda.  Castro, for instance, insisted that the women he kidnapped were actually happy in the house.  It highlights the world of the narcissistic psychopath and the potential blind spot of us all.  We believe that what we do is valid and even good simply because we are doing it, others may not understand but how could they as they lack the rarified view from one’s own skull.

                There is a social aspect we should consider too; the individual experiences the world through the filter of themselves, but it is getting easier and easier for narcissists to find validating information coming from society.  Their interior life is bolstered by a world which seems ever increasingly sympathetic to their hopes for broader acceptance.  The women of the world are not helped by the success of a novel which features fantasy rape scenes, though it is written by a woman, and therefore it becomes charitable to lovingly and verbally jettison the tome.  It is merciful to napalm music videos which exploit women and apply social pressure for the artists to seek reconciliation from those which he has publicly injured.  It is necessary to boycott companies which exploit women’s bodies and feed women and men a message of superficial accessibility void of psychological, sociological, and spiritual truth. 

The problem is that we are losing the ability to identify these sources of social and personal rot.   Society and the individual are locked in the proverbial spiral of death falling from the sky towards the unflinching and diamond hard earth, which represents the truth in this analogy.  We must see though that the truth is not the destructive power in the analogy, it simply is, and evil destroys itself.  Evil consumes itself.  Evil is a cancer which envelopes its surroundings until the organism, humanity, dies.

The anti-thesis is obvious: self-sacrifice, service to others, basically being a loving person.  The problem is that the discomfort this produces causes the individual to flag, to wilt.  Communism insists that the balm is material; that the economic and material benefit associated with the proposed altruism would create this loving society of the disinterested self.  The result instead is abject materialism.  The comfort we seek is not truly about material wellbeing or Castro could be vindicated if he fed and sheltered the women he terrorized, he becomes a Stalin figure teaching society his will or Mao chaining workers to their machines because their sacrifice serves an imagined good but actually serves a privileged few.

Our motivations require something more than materialism, they require spirituality; but they require more than spirituality, they require religion.  The reason for this is that we need to follow a path to God, through God, and in God, which the sacraments of the Church provide.  We see this through the example of the Trinity.  Jesus personifies the will of the Father, not Jesus’ own will, which exemplifies Jesus’ love of the Father.  The Holy Spirit does the will of the Son of God which is the ultimate expression of love for Jesus.  Does this then set up the Holy Hierarchy?  No, rather God the Father exemplifies His love through the words He expresses through Jesus who insists that the greatest must be the servant of all.  God made everything from nothing and holds it together through a constant act of His conscious will.  If He did not serve all He would simply allow those who disobeyed Him to return to their natural state of actual, as opposed to merely poetic, oblivion.

So we have a Trinity which could easily be construed as a hierarchical system but which gains its true nature in it’s being the prototypical loving relationship.  The Trinity is totally open to its members as its dignity is never compromised by any of its members.  The Trinity seeks only to serve, only to love, and that love bore the fruit of all that God called “good” which was created out of that love and is inclusive of the entirety of creation from the beginning.

Jesus stated that everyone who does the will of His Father is His brother and sister.  We become a part of the mystery of the Trinity in the same methodology as the Trinity, and we discover the same life giving fruit which is born of that love.

The ultimate culmination of that love was the crucifixion and death of our Lord Jesus Christ; but more than that, the fruit of Jesus’ obedient love was the realization of the fullness of human life and it’s potential through the Resurrection.  The simply material appreciation of the world is the cross.  It is the instrument of death.  We who believe in the promise which Jesus embodies die to the material of the world in favor of a greater reality which is the fullness of truth, Jesus, and we share in His life, His death, and His Resurrection.

                We seek not our own monstrous will, our own truly evil and narcissistic self-interest, and our idolatry in which we fancy ourselves as a god.  We understand that truth by definition can only be One, Holy, and Perfect.  It is not increasingly smaller increments of grey. 

“Perfection is founded entirely on the love of God: ‘Charity is the bond of perfection;’ and perfect love of God means the complete union of our will with God’s.” St. Alphonsus Liguori

Without this love of God, which is exemplified in the love of charity. Our society is becoming a reality which we will use that house in Cleveland as an analogy for.  May we seek the love and will of God brothers and sisters in Christ.

Wednesday, September 7, 2011

Does Jesus Love Chaz Bono?


                The short answer, “Yes, of course.” The actual short answer is, “Duh.” They say, “God is love.” That statement actually describes love not God.  You see God is love.  There is no love outside of God; this is true regardless of how we feel about it.  So if we have felt any pangs or flutters we should thank God and so the closer we get to God the closer we get to love.
                “Does God love us?” This is the only question we ever ask; but the actual question we should ask is, “Do we love God?” God gives and we receive; it’s like the Jordan River unless we too pass that love on, that grace, we become The Dead Sea.  The Dead Sea is the end of the line for the Jordan; it tries to keep all the good stuff coming to it from the Jordan all for itself and that is why it is “Dead”.  Compare that to the Sea of Galilee, another sea on the Jordan; it passes on what it is given and it teams with a diversity of life.
                So love is like life and death on the Jordan.  Unless we give what is given, those little fishies of love which happen upon the Sea of You will not be swimming very long.
                So what does this have to do with Chaz Bono?  Chaz seems to have only asked the first question.  “Does Jesus love me?” and the answer is, “Yes, of course.”  The next step was then not to ask the second question and start the process of being in love, but to use that answer as a battering ram to any concern placed in the way. 
“Only God can judge.” This is a true and accurate statement.  It is also a taunt, not to mere judgmental humans, to God.  The issuer of this statement is calling God to judgment.  God wants to be merciful but we bind His hands in our desire for vengeance and must drink that cup also.  “Forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who have trespassed against us.”  Jesus taught us to pray this in His prayer, it’s referred to as The Our Father or the Lord’s Prayer it can be found in Matthew 6: 9-13 and Luke 11: 2-4. It strikes at the heart of the foundation of love.
Chaz Bono desires dignity and respect from the public at large, but what is dignity?  Dignity is defined as an innate right to respect and ethical treatment, the earliest theory of dignity and the truest was derived by the Church.  Human beings have dignity because God created us in His image and conferred upon us the ability to reason so we have a free will like His own.  “God created man a rational being, conferring upon him the dignity of a person who can initiate and control his own actions.” (1730, Catechism of the Catholic Church)
Chaz Bono chose to create herself in the image of man and part with herself as the image of God, echoing the desire of the original sin to be our own gods and becoming a very dead sea.  So in a sense Chaz mortally wounded Chastity Bono’s dignity.  This statement is misleading though because the human will rests in the human soul and Chaz could not change Chastity’s soul anymore than he could change her DNA.  So it would be closer to say that Chastity Bono’s dignity is continually being offended until she repents.
Our dignity desires us to pursue not happiness in ourselves but happiness through the beatific vision.  The beatific vision is our heavenly reward; it is direct vision of and full communion with God.  There have been some saints, St. Thomas Aquinas pops to mind, who have been allowed a foretaste of this vision and have reported that it should in fact be the all consuming desire of our lives.  Jesus directs us towards the beatific vision as He gave us the beatitudes.
The Beatitudes
    He said:
   3 “Blessed are the poor in spirit,
   for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
4 Blessed are those who mourn,
   for they will be comforted.
5 Blessed are the meek,
   for they will inherit the earth.
6 Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness,
   for they will be filled.
7 Blessed are the merciful,
   for they will be shown mercy.
8 Blessed are the pure in heart,
   for they will see God.
9 Blessed are the peacemakers,
   for they will be called children of God.
10 Blessed are those who are persecuted because of righteousness,
   for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
   11 “Blessed are you when people insult you, persecute you and falsely say all kinds of evil against you because of me. 12 Rejoice and be glad, because great is your reward in heaven, for in the same way they persecuted the prophets who were before you. (The New International Bible Matthew 5: 3-12)
It may seem to some, or all, that I am transgressing the beatitudes by picking on Chaz Bono, that I am a “hater” as Chaz puts it and a pretty dead sea myself.  If no one cares enough to tell the truth then we will simply fall deeper into our self absorbed miseries and no one will suggest a way out.  Loving people can be scary but I have to tell you the truth regardless of how I feel.
The truth being the only way out of our self absorbed miseries is Jesus Christ.  Chaz and everyone else for that matter will simply try to manipulate themselves superficially until we get to that last heartbreak; the one before we die or accept Christ.  There are so many of us who would rather die bodily than die to our pride and our sin.
 Considering the lack of parenting and parental self absorption Chaz has professed of Sonny and Cher.  There are ample grounds for Chaz to begin understanding the mess which created the seedbed of emotional turmoil which would lead her down this road.  Cher for her part has stuck up for Chaz by Tweet as of late, which is a good and positive thing for her to do.  Mothers must defend their children and if she seems to be coming late to the game at least she’s there. 
God’s love has amazing potential; the only problem with God’s love is us.  Jesus loves you and Chaz Bono; do be good enough to return the favor.